Wednesday 20 January 2016

On the Marriage



My friend shows me his wedding ring, recently removed from right hand to left. A trip to the British Consulate, signing of papers, presentation of a Marriage Certificate: actually those Civil Partnerships were really weddings of same-sex couples. My friend’s husband is a British citizen: he’s entitled to the protection of his government.
            Marriage is associated with matters of procreation, inheritance and authenticity. Biblical references narrate such questions as adoption (beloved by St. Paul), surrogacy (can a slave produce a legitimate heir?), adultery (alienation of rights), divorce (severance of contracts involving families, clans or nations) and possession (specifically of land). Marriage in antiquity carries heavy symbolism.
            Mme. de Sevigné writes that her daughter’s bridegroom has the desired qualities of wealth, birth, and high position (as well as other ‘good qualities’) so without question they (her family) trust in the two families who were connected to M. de Grignan through his marriages to his earlier wives who have died. Marriages unite families. Marriages tell you who is family.
            At the wedding in Cana, Christ transmuted water into wine. The water involved is ritual water; the wine is the most honourable. Marriage symbolises integrity, devotion, love, and respect. Therefore same-sex couples should be married:  for the sake of the family.

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